If  u hear fromsome one that      I m in big problem then  what will u understand from the world problem..  ….few days back if someone has asked me  same question. Then  simplest definition of  worldproblem  I must have given at that time may be like……… “ a problem  is a task or responsibility   assigned to a particular person which  is somehow difficult for that  person  to accomplish   or in more general  aspect it may be a dream  not coming  to be true.“

 But recently   an experience of life   made me to design a new definition of  problem.             

Through out the life  each day we all have to face different situations.some of which  feel good  and we consider these moments as happiness. On the other hand some moments  cause us to feel hard and some time it seems to be very difficult  to come out from fromthose moments. And we define those moments as problem.  It means a problem is not a  task nor a responsibility nor a dream but it is a moment(though  some time  this moment is too long may be in years)difficult to pass.

Some time  we involve  ourselves with a particular  problem  upto an extent that  it feels like nothing  nice is left  behind with us to enjoy in life  and life becomes a stopped clock for us……………………………………….

I read somewhere that  each and every problem has a solution . I think this statement is   upto  99.9%..      yes it is 99.% ….becoz  it is practically  not possible to come out from a problem  with success.  And we have to come out from that situation leaving them unsolved.

        I think there r 2 ways to tackle such type of problem which seem to b very difficult to solve on one hand and  on the other hand it seem to take away all happiness from our life if not solved properly…….

1) the first is  try to find out all possible and feasible solution for it. And select the best one.now implement or follow this solution with all ur heart and strength but donnot be cautious about the result. Though  this result matters a lot for u. and may be it is a question of life and death 4 u but u just make ur self ready for both  positive result and for negative as well.

        This point reminds me the line of  GEETA……..karm karo phal ki chinta mat karo.  Well  I have read  geeta one or 2 times . I m not really sure how much I under stood that but this line  too was not  not very clear to me in meaning. I  used to think that how is it possible that we can do some work and not expect some fruitful result from it  whether the fruits r  according to our  taste or not. What I mean to say is that  I used to think that one will  atleast  expect  the result in his favour.and over all  if we follow this line how it is going to help us to perform our task in more accurate way.

 But now  I agree 100%with these lines.  Though it is practically not possible to do a work without  expecting  a outcome from it. And always what ever task we r going to perform  have a  result  and  obviously  we want to turn it in our favour.. and yes we sud try it but the thing to be remembered is that  though we want to get positive result but we sud always be ready to face. the negative aspect.what I mean to say that we sud not be over cautious for the result to be in our favour and if  it is not going  to be  according our expectation then  also we sud leave  some space that  we will face  it and can take care of ourself.and this thought increases the possibility for  getting success becoz of the fact that if we do any work without  being over cautious abt the result then the possibility of doing mistake decreases  whereas it increases otherwise...  here we can take the example of nervous 90’s in cricket.

2) the second  is that if we see that we cannot find any practicaaly feasible solution, of a parti cular problem then we sud leave it on time . and the time it self will handle it. But it must be the last option  not the first otherwise it will become our habbit to leave our problems unsolved.now if one think that how time can solve our problem without any effort from ourside………it is very simple as……

a) may be with passage of time that issue is no longer  remains that much  important for  u

b) may be u get some one to help u to get ur aim who were not with u earlier.

c) the last one though sounds a negative thought but is true……….may be u were worried abt tomorrow and it is always possible that may be   u never meet  that tomorrow 

 so  just try to tackle all problems with all efforts and if   still unsolved leave it on time.

                                                                                  bye and take care

                                                                                         ANJALI